According to Laurie Davis from yourtango.com, adding a generous dose of laughter and humour to your repertoire can do wonders for your sex life whether you are single and dating or well ensconced in couplehood.
A recent study on humour revealed that 87% of men and 74% of women say that “humorous flirtation can get them in the mood for sex”.
In the American study, 43% preferred a partner with a “goofy” sense of humour and 64% agreed “that besides chemistry, a ‘sense of humor’ is the most important quality for a successful relationship”.
Communication happens whether we think it is or not…..Even in silence you are communicating something!
Men and women are different too, which also complicates the whole communication thing.Women most often would like a sympathetic ear to be able to share their day – with or without frustrations they have encountered. Once a man hears about any frustration or problem his lady has encountered, instead of listening attentively and providing validation and empathy, he most likely wants to jump in and do the manly thing of fixing things!!
This desire to “provide” for his lady is often met with more frustration if she simply wants him to listen.
Here is what you may find to be an interesting article on this topic: